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Maximizing Your Chance of Success at the Doctor’s Office
Going to the doctor can feel intimidating. Too often, I see people shrink in the exam room, treating the doctor like...
The Double-Edged Sword of Validation
Growing up, I had parents who were quick to tell their friends and colleagues how proud they were of me. They would recount my achievements with glowing admiration, but…
When to Invest in and When to Let Go of Friendships
Relationships can be complex. Whether you find yourself in a situation where someone seeks more from you than you’re ready to give, or you’re yearning for deeper connection while the other person remains aloof…
5 Counterintuitive Mental Health Tips That Changed My Life
Life often presents us with paradoxes—those unexpected twists that challenge our assumptions and lead us down paths we never thought we’d travel…
Challenging Norms in Medical Appointments
Living with a chronic illness often means becoming intimately familiar with the routine of medical appointments. These visits, intended to provide care and support, can sometimes feel like a whirlwind of discomfort and power imbalances…
How to Get Out of “Rock and a Hard Place” Situations: The Secret to Empowered Decision-Making
Life has an uncanny talent for throwing us into tricky situations. Perhaps you made it here today because you're standing at a crossroads…
How to Ask For What You Need Without Making People Defensive
Trust is the lifeblood of any healthy relationship, especially when addressing problems and challenges. Couples who can navigate…
How to Protect Your Peace When Dealing With Difficult People
Do you find yourself stuck in challenging relationships with friends, coworkers, or even your parents? It can be painful and emotionally…
How Unpleasant Emotions Can Actually Make Your Life Better
If you’re like most humans, you resist, suppress, or distract yourself from unpleasant emotions because they can be uncomfortable, overwhelming, or even…
How to Make Friends With Uncertainty
As women, we have been told time and time again that we must have a clear plan for our lives. It's as if we are expected to have a blueprint for the perfect…
Navigating Well-Meaning but Harmful Advice About Your Chronic Illness
Chronic pain and illness can be tough to manage because it's often invisible and misunderstood by those who don't live with them daily. You may feel alone or like no one understands what you're going through.
How to Figure Out Who You Are
Have you ever fantasized about leaving your "comfortable" job, cutting all contact with the outside world, and running…